Monday, October 19, 2009

Ladies take care of your own hearts.........



If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away

If he doesn't want you, nothing can really make him stay

Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour

Allow your intuition or spirit to save you from heartache

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be

Slower is better

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy


If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friend" wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle


If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is

Don't stay because you think "it will get better"

You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better

The only person you can control in a realationship is you

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different woman

He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he trat you any differently?


Always have your own set of friends separate from his

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are

Even if he has more education or in a better job

Do not make him into a quasi-god

He is a man, nothing more nothing less

Never let a man define who you are

Never borrow someone else's man

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you

All men are NOT dogs

You should not be the one doing all the bending...

Compromise is two way street

A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...

Look for someone complimentary... not supplementary

Dating if fun..... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr Right

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted

Never move into his mother't house. Never co-sign for a man

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need

Keep him in your radar but get to know others

You should know that:-

You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one.

They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices

Make the right one


Ladies, take care of your own hearts....


zzzyy

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tq, peace :)